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[MrD]

I'm a little confused. What is your reason for moving out and what is your primary goal? Do you want to save the marriage?

My reason is to detach and GAL, with the MIL paying the mortgage and controlling the finances right now it's like the W has the upper hand in controlling how my life is going on.
I wanted to save the marriage but right now I feel W is ashamed of something she did and is taking it out on me. Something has happened and she won't say what it was. I've done everything I can think of and now the ball is in her court.
W needs to realize what she has chosen I feel now.
I've lost intrest in keeping up the yard and around the house. And I'm more focused on selling my hobby stuff and my new Christian life.