It was getting depressing thinking that all of this info would have been helpful over the past 6.5 years that I've known H, but that it might be too late for us.

I could not have phrased it differently. That is exactly how I was thinking..especially when reading How to improve your marriage....

But I have learned from that already. And that cant be taken away and now can be used when needed for any future R.

Stay smiling....

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home