I like the way you think about that. If we did ever reconcile, it would be to start a completely new M, where we'd communicate better and put each other first, before other friends and family, so it would be a new R.
I think that perspective will make it a little easier to digest the info that I'm taking in. It was getting depressing thinking that all of this info would have been helpful over the past 6.5 years that I've known H, but that it might be too late for us.
I'm a different, better person for going through this, so I can't expect, or even want, things to go back the way they were.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
