Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
So husband came home this morning to help me move. He's in such a terrible mood and every time I talk about anything he just sighs really deeply like I'm the most annoying person, ever. I'm trying to keep it light and friendly but he's being such a nasty and horrible person.
Sophie - moves are always tough and this one has a whole layer of other emotions on top of it. Stay strong, keep being tigger. It's statistically unlikely that you are the most annoying person, ever I hope you feel better once all of your stuff is in your new place - then you can set it up as you like. Do you have any other plans this weekend with friends that you can GAL or they could help you unpack in your new home to get some good memories going there?
i really can't be tigger today. i'm so tired. his friend came in and was like HEY SO HOW ARE THINGS. things obviously are [censored]. we're getting divorced and you're here to help my husband basically kick me out of our home. how do i be upbeat throughout all of that? im just sitting in the bedroom, on the upside down mattress on the floor. they're taking [censored] out to bring to the dump.
a friend is coming by on sunday to help me unpack, but all of my other friends are too busy or too "poor" to come visit me. im sick of everyone, basically. no one will ever give a [censored].
I do agree with Vera, moving has a host of emotions, and while you are excited about it, your h also has his own emotions he needs to process through too. That doesn't mean you can't be excited, but don't take it to heart when he is being moody.
So this weekend do you have any other gal going on? (I think people tend to not answer posts on the weekend because they are trying to gal too ).
Me& h + S M: 13 t: 14
H moved 2/12. Own apt 05/12, EAs, PAs, gfriends, oh my! I'm done. 12/12
"I get knocked down, but I get up again.. you're never gonna keep me down" Chumbawumba
I've definitely noticed that the number of posts are much lower on the weekends.
Come Monday, you'll probably get more responses and you'll see everyone commenting on all of their GAL activities over the weekend.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
I hope you feel better once all of your stuff is in your new place - then you can set it up as you like. Do you have any other plans this weekend with friends that you can GAL or they could help you unpack in your new home to get some good memories going there?