Just bumped into a friend who works in the lab opposite my wife. She was so concerned and sorry about how thing's were. She was saying that it was a lesson to everyone on how close we all were to something like this happening and how it's sometimes really tough to know what you want out of life. So, who knows what she's saying at work. Then I've just been over on the talkaboutmarriage forums and read some stuff from WAW's on there and to say I'm pessimistic at the moment would be an understatement!