This is not looking good! (Long post...)

[jks]

I said something along the lines of there's no rush we're not totally done yet

Do you see how you're forcing that decision on her when you say that? She's telling you one thing and you're saying another, like you're not hearing her.

All in all, you did well, especially with how fresh and new this situation is but learn from this small interaction. I have a great post that I've saved from another poster here that I will post to your thread. It's a great perspective to remember when we're thinking about pressuring our spouses to see OUR way and what WE want.