4 months ago: me: I think we should use the tax refund to get a new dishwasher. H: okay, sounds good.
3 months ago: me: I think we should use the tax refund to get a new dishwasher. H: I don't think we should spend money on that, leave it, we're going to sell the house anyway.
This morning: H: I think we should get a new dishwasher. me: Why do you think that? H: Because this one is gross. I know you've been working hard to try to keep it clean but something is wrong with it and we should just get a new one. me: well we had saved part of the tax refund to pay for a new dishwasher. H: okay, great!