I'll check out those blogs! I like you're "blowing away with the wind" visualization... I'll try that sometime. I've managed to get past the bitterness in regards to my H, but the OW stuff still finds its way to eat at me.... Can't wait to get to the place where it doesn't even phase me to hear her name!

I grew up in California (San Fran area) and the military base had already closed down when my dad was transferred there, so I didn't have any friends that understood the nomadic lifestyle of the military, I only keep up with 2 people from HS smirk I think it would be a great start to a new chapter of your life to move to a place that *you* pick (not told by the military) and establish yourself as the beautiful single woman you are becoming smile


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12