Welcome back Purgalicious! You sound like you're in a good spot. One thing...I think it will be important for you to find some kind of help with the kids, so you can make sure you have time for yourself. Or you could make some new friends and invite them all over for a party. LOL
Don't be like my mother who was basically never away from my sister and I except to go to work until we were about 13. She still idn't get a life until my brother was in his teens. We're talking 25 years!
You really do sound great! I'm excited for the new and good things you are experiencing! Keep us posted!
