I really really think you should meet with the therapist by yourself BEFORE your next joint session so you can strategize together on where he's going to go and what you want. You're doing MC, not family therapy with this guy and that's high stakes poker. Don't walk in and get surprised or go for a ride -- stack the deck in your favor.
Accuray
H texted me today and told me that he actually has to work this next Monday night so he won't be able to come to the therapy session. This happens to work in my favor because I can now just meet with the T on my own.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
