Wendy, I feel the same way about OW (hearing her every time he speaks...) I've told myself that I *have* to have some kind of relationship with STBXH b/c of our kids, and therefore I need to be able to resolve the bitterness so it doesn't eat away at me forever. BUT I *DON'T* have to have any interactions with OW ever again and therefore I can choose to move past it, or I can choose to plot ways of slashing her tires. The tire fantasy makes me smile currently... but I hope that one day I won't even care enough to think about her!
Sounds like you have a full dance card! Enjoy! What's in California? (I've been gone for a while and I missed something?)
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
