This is not looking good! (Long post...)

[confusedfather]

I am just beginning on my journey with DB, but i am pretty sure your goals have to be things you have control over. Your goals look more like expectations of what you expect your wife to do. If she doesn't call did you fail? I would look at goals that you can achieve that will better you, like exercise more or find a new hobby. Getting in shape is one of my goals and yesterday I joined a gym. I'm not in shape yet, but i took the first step.