Thanks, bill! It will be fun. I texted my H that I was excited because it's my favorite day of the year and he actually texted back, " I am so looking forward to it MYSELF, quite a bit.". He will get the boat ready and I'll do the food. Just him and me! No kids, no friends, just us in the water all day. I'm happy about the day to come!

I thought I would share something from the book I'm reading about codependency.

It's pretty profound.
"We don't have to take rejection as a reflection of our self-worth. If somebody who is important (or even someone unimportant ) to you rejects you or your choices, you are still real, and you are still worth every bit as much as you would be if you had not been rejected."

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing