You didn't need my input with all the heavy hitters on your thread, tbr...
This was the same therapist that your W recommended? I don't remember, so... If so, then good. She should also be comfortable doing the work. Although if it is (unless that was someone else) than I was a little surprised to hear you said the therapist got her to commit to trying... like she wanted to see this guy and yet maybe wasn't fully committed...