Husband Filed for Divorce Today

[Jessica M.]

I have been doing so good. Me and WAH had been getting along really good and I was having hopes that maybe someday we could reconcile. Not that it was going to happen even before divorce but I had some hope. Well today I took at least 2 steps backwards. My husband was getting ready to go to work and I was going to take a nap since I only worked a half day today and he started talking about my plans to possibly move in with my parents when I started school. I told him how that was not going to happen and we started to briefly discuss it. He acted like he was upset that my parents didn't want me to move in. I told him that it wasn't their responsibility to take me and our daughter in since he didn't want me anymore. I just couldn't believe why he would be upset and I told him how pissed my mom was at him. I didn't yell but I said some things that I had been holding back and it wasn't good. I showed him the me that he didn't want to be with and I really regret saying things. I should have just held my tongue. I wasn't looking forward to this conversation anyways because I knew how he would react. He always seems to think that my parents have some responsibility to me and Alyssa that they don't.

Very frustrating! Wish I wouldn't have said anything. Makes me realize that I still have a lot of work to do. It's easy to get along with my husband when we are discussing carefree things but if we hit certain trigger points we still have a lot of work to do.