you are right Ro...if you wanted to leave, you would leave...no matter how broke you were

most people would


so


you are left with several options


he isn't totally committed to leaving
he isn't totally rational

some combination of the two


either way...he is still there

you have that advantage

why are some of the reasons you like having him there as opposed to having him NOT be there?

help him find those reasons for you (why he would rather stay)
without actually making that list

(for example...if you like having him there because you like snuggling...make sure you snuggle with him

if you like having him there because you like waking up and seeing his face, let him know that in the morning...)