H zig - thanks for all the pointers you're giving me. I seems like you ARE doing a good job otherwise there would be a flood of comments
The not unloving bit is easy for me - just hope that the W realizes it for what it is and not indifference. I can relate to the "things will take care of themselves" as a 180 - normally I'd be "fixing" things.
The rope bit also makes since in the respect of stubborn (as a mule) which the W truly is. So dropped it is. That's going to confuse the heck out of her!
I can see the roller coaster on the down cycle. After yesterday, I've had sweet not-a-lot today. Go figure. But I've a huge stock of deteminatin in store. She's worth it. Our M is worth it. Our future is worth it.
And you're right - I can actually see my W trying to ge me worked up. A male friend of mine - the one that told me what the W was going to do this says that he's always admired me and my outlook on life but I could be a pain at times. Me - a human dichotomy (spell checker working overtime!). Well, the ship is now firmly on a level keel. I'll do my best to keep it there. If the wheels fall off - the neighbors will know about it. They'll hear my head banging against the wall . Hugh - a ship with a wheel????
The mutual friend? We've known each other long before my W arrived on the scene. I hope she's not got her eyes on me!
I'll take a look at the boot camp section - anything to focus! And you're right again - second time around is still a shock. I would have hoped I'd learnt my leason(s) the first time round.
And YOU put a grin on my face with your posts. Bless you zig,
I hope others won't get upset (too much) with my posts. The reason? I tend to be a bt of a funny bugger when start coming right. Watch this space.
Finally - only one minute? It's taken a lot longer in my reply to you - another thank you
W going to be confused in the morning as I bid her a fond goodby (only for a few hours . I have some work to do. Haven't worked Saturday in AGES! It'll do us both good.
