I have not read your other thread but let me just say is that there can always be HOPE.
Hope is within you and can not be taken away by your spouse.
You can not have any expectations but you can always have HOPE. Let her go and drop the rope, she is in control right now of whether you will have a relationship in the future. At some point in the future it will be your decision whether to take her back again.
I can not tell you when, but I do know that the LBS is the one that makes the final decision.
Most LBS's give up.
And you must get on with your life and live it "as if" she is never coming back.
Those are all key in YOUR recovery and the ability to ever have another relationship with your W.
The old relationship is dead and a new one must be born.
