Once I found this site and DR, I began to work on me. I am in such a better place now. I won't say that it won't hurt if the W finds another OM, but I know I will be able to move on.
Before this site, this is how I felt: - I am too old to find someone else to love me - Who is going to get into a R with a 40yr with 3 Ds? - I am unattractive - I let myself go, who is going to want me? - W is the only person I want to be with, we are soulmates
How do I feel now? Age is just a number. I don't look my age and don't act like an old man.
I have a lot of offer someone. Who doesn't want someone that is a good father and provider for their children?
I am attractive. Inside and out.
I put time and effort into me and I look good. New clothes and new attitude. I feel like I am the cocky, confident me of my youth except I have strong parenting skills and a good job.
I am a person only a fool would leave. There is someone out there that will love me.
I like me.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012