I swear, my xH and I limped along for almost a year, and most everything got done over a span of a whole (two) meetings, really. (Of course, the limping along, was entirely his fault. )
Question:
If the date has to be changed, why can't it be moved up a day/days/a week or so, instead?
In IL, at least, the L's spent more time going back and forth, and together, than actually in the court itself. They just brought any unresolved issues to the Judge for "conference", and asked for his signature on those that were agreed upon.
Took a whopping 15 min total, I bet.
Just throwing it out there.
Also, I see my xh at sporting events non-stop. I've become excellent at looking through him. HA (Unless the boys are around, of course, then, I try my hardest to act "normal" and willing to interact, if required.)
Just wait until he sees your new MAGIC MIKE boyfriend. LOL He'll stay in his own space then.
Muuuuahhhh!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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