No Expectations, No Plans, No Timeline

[Breakdown]

That was a great starter for me this morning. I love the light hearted, fun, flirty nature. I think it actually changed my mindset to starting off my day. I think we all need more of that, without expectations....just fun.

If we never R and this is all there is I'll be okay. I've gained this independence and calm I never had. I know I want a M that looks different to what I had and I'm not sure who that will be with

I've found myself in a similar place. I still love my W with all my heart, but I find that I'm happy for the hardships because they've resulted in good change in me. I think I can be happy for the first time in my life. W and I were actually talking about this the other night and while I wish our lives were blissful from the beginning, I am happy things got worse because I don't like the idea of being just happy enough not to leave.

You sound like you are in such a good place. I'm happy for you! Keep it up!