Hey ss, my story is very similar to yours at this point, except for the ML ;/ (I'm on my way to my thread to do a little update).
I took a 6 wk class last summer based on the Cloud and Townsend Boundaries book. It was a good thing to do, I liked the class so much I loaned the book out and who knows were it is now. Hopefully someone is getting help from it.
Be encouraged that your H is seeing a C and that he's reading HTIYMWTAI.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss