After finally getting alone and talking to my wife last night we may not be able to repair the damage. I found out a lot more than I thought I would and she's not sure what she wants for herself.
The wound is too new and too deep to know if I can forgive her and trust her ever again. Several times she asked, through heavy tears and sobbing, if it was over. Right now it is. I mean, c'mon ...
Me:42 W:43 M:03/08/98 SD17, D13 Found out about affair:12/16/10 Found out again: 06/22/12 Split: 06/22/12