I guess I'll have to be.

Overcome. Adapt.

After finally getting alone and talking to my wife last night we may not be able to repair the damage. I found out a lot more than I thought I would and she's not sure what she wants for herself.

The wound is too new and too deep to know if I can forgive her and trust her ever again. Several times she asked, through heavy tears and sobbing, if it was over. Right now it is. I mean, c'mon ...


Me:42
W:43
M:03/08/98
SD17, D13
Found out about affair:12/16/10
Found out again: 06/22/12
Split: 06/22/12