NLW please don't ever ever think you are thought of as a victim or hopeless. Even though we have such similar situations, the finer details differ so we just have to keep going until the right solutions for YOU are found.

Please keep posting. We need you too. You were one of the first to post on my thread and you have since been someone I feel connected with.

You have cat and ncl giving you invaluable solution oriented advice and the rest of us have your back.

Stay beautiful and strong

Busting

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home