i guess i'm a bit confused - it is stated non-stop that the coaches and Michele are the experts - so if they are actually encouraging us to do this, how does that work with support on the board? not to mention them putting it as " start having an affair with your S"
so what are your thoughts on this, and would love to hear from others on the board too. zig
Hi Zig,
So glad you raised this issue.
It's one I keep seeing on the boards as well. It seems to me that DB coaches are more into the "be nice, be the OP, concentrate on making home a safe, welcoming place" line of action.
This does seem at odds with a lot of the 'go dark, accept that the M is over, tell spouse you too want a D' alternative.
I find it really confusing to know which way to go.
Do what works, I suppose, but the two lines are at opposite ends of the spectrum, it seems to me.
