That's why GAL is so important -- being around other people makes you less likely to believe any venom WAS is spewing. Take the long term issues to heart, don't pay any attention to the stuff said in the moment.
In order for W to convince herself that she's making the right decision, she has to cast you as the villain. When you don't play the role they get angry and will bait you. The longer you don't play the role, they have to eventually give it up.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015