After reading DB again, I made a list of small things that I thought I could take as positive results. One of them was that W would invite me to an upcoming function in August. A husband of a friend of my W (who is hearing the warning signs from his own wife) told me his W sent him a message that she and my W are going together (leaving him out also.)
How do I get over caring. I know I shouldn't worry about it. I know a lot of things could change between now and then. I know not to say anything to W as it would be pursuing. I know to act happy and stay busy. However, I need any support out there..........
(by the way, I bought DB and gave to the friend. He has heard "as soon as the kids are out of the house, she is through." I told him our W's are telling each other how bad each marriage is. If we both work on it and make positive strides, we might just help each other.)
