I don't envy your next four years! Isn't there a way you can get custody? Locking your own child out of their own home on purpose is certainly psycho.
Glad things are going well with your new wife. Your ex wife can't stand that you are happy, I am guessing that she really is not but she stays for the toys and money. Some people just don't get it.
Keep being a good role model for your kids. As they wander out onto their own, I am sure they will most likely wander to you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory