Talked to brother today about sitch. He told me about how long it had been 5-6 months. I had to correct him and tell him it's barely going on 3. It surprised him. Told him that some days it feels longer & others it feels like it just happened. Guess that tells me a lot.
1. That W probably feels like it just happened
2. That this is still just the beginning
3. If it seems like that long to him I wonder how long it seems to D & W
4. No wonder W still wants divorce & is so angry. The hurt is still fresh.


Can't stop thinking about the sitch today. Just going over every aspect of it over & over. I'm usually ok when I get home with D. Anyone have any advice or words of encouragement out there?


M:40
W:28
D:7
Married: 5
Together: 10
Separated: 4/1/2012