My update for today: This morning was a good morning with the H. He came to hold me before he got ready for work, and we went to breakfast together-- in the car he reached for my hand and held it the whole way.

Since then, I have not called,texted or spoken or seen H. I am at home with our dogs taking a nap, before I am heading off to a work function downtown tonight, so I don't think I will see him before I go and I don't expect him to be staying at home tonight. He has spent the last two nights at home, but guessing he will be spending the night at the OWs place tonight (yes, confusing, crazy situation, but being honest about it and laying it all out on the table).

I am looking forward to my weekend. I have no plans, but I want to take the time to re-read Divorce Busting and get a plan in motion. I also want to get started back on my weight loss regimen, so some trips to the gym and the pool for sure. I also am making plans to see one of my friends this weekend. So I should be pretty busy, and able to focus on myself.

That is my update for today.

M-28
H-28
M-9 1/2 years
T- 12 years
PA- 01/02/12 (still going on)