good signs, bad signs, or nothing at all

[confusedfather]

She wants to wait until she actually is ready to move before we tell them. I don't know if that is a good idea or not. part of me feels we should tell them now.

I don't know where to start with boundaries. I am still trying to get my thoughts together to sort this one out.

I have been reading a lot of the threads and getting some ideas. One boundary for sure is OM is not allowed on my property to help her move. W will not be able to use my truck if OM is involved in helping her move. There are two. Probably with a little though I can come up with a lot of boundaries.