That has been my mindset all this time. I'm staying my decision to not move to SC until she/we are fixed (if that's what she truly wants).

I'm also equally alert to not turn into her two years ago, when I was the one pursuing and felt the ground collapse from under my feet.

M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112