Weelllllllll.....it's been a very long time since I posted here. As you may recall, Donald Trumps' divorce took less time than mine due to an XW who held out for every dime...no... penny she could get.

Most of you (although not all, wii, Sun!)don't remember me or the darkest days of my life back in 05-06 when I thought I wouldn't survive a divorce, much less survive at all. Well, 6 years later, a year in Iraq and a great new wife, who would believe it! There IS hope for everyone, so don't lose hope.

You may recall that my XW is vindictive and still wants to control me, even though she's been with her boss for 5 years now. She's 52, he's 65 (?) Oh well... she drives his deceased wife's BMW with her vanity license plate everywhere. She died of cancer when they were carrying on. No shame.

Anyhow, her acting out is a huge point of contention with my current wife. I'm between not wanting to tell her anything and let her know everything, but this just angers her.

Check my posts from 2006-2008 if you want to see the textbook psycho ex spouse. The latest is this.

My S14 is with me on Tuesdays and Thursdays. I hired a college girl to shuffle him around and care for him while I'm at work. She picks him up at XWs house and takes him wherever he wants to go, after he checks with me.

When he is with XW on Mondays, she lets him stay in her house all day, unsupervised, watching TV. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, she locks him out of the house at 8AM, so she can go to work, and told him she's locking him out so "he won't have friends in the house for a party". The college girl picks him up at 9AM, so he's essentially locked out for an hour.

This is ALL about me and being spiteful. I called Child Protective Services today, and the woman told me that although it was weird, I was probably responsible for him. (I drive him to her house on the nights he's with me. She goes to work in the other direction, so she feels she's immune from dropping him at my house) I talked with a good friend who is a high-ranking police officer. He suggested I go to the town where XW lives and talk to the police there as "even tenants who don't pay rent can't be locked out"

Meanwhile my new wife is doing a "slow burn" because she feels XW is controlling our new life. XW does NOT care how she looks to anyone.

My XW has this need to both hate me and conjure up ways to communicate with me. Ugh.....