What are great morning you had, and walking away feeling confident and in control.
I get what you mean about expectations being the downfall...I have been known to look down that tunnel a few ( thousand) times myself.
You have piqued my interest in the pursuit/ distance dynamic.. I think I might start looking at it too.
Have a great day Brit aka sallie ( aka zena while kicking butt!!!!!)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home