Got an email from my stbxs yesterday, she is offering to meet me half way across pennsy to let me have the dog for a few weeks while she goes on vacation.

She lives right next door to her sister in Ohio, and could easily have had her sister watch him while she is gone, she very thoughtfully offered to let me have him. My first reaction is to jump at the chance, but I really dont want to see her right now, only because I think it could be detrimental to the detaching I have been practicing for the last 9 months. Havent seen her in 9 months and have only spoken by phone 3 times, although we email every couple of weeks.

I am thinking of asking her to drop him off at our cabin in Pennsy, where I can meet him after she turns around and heads back to Ohio.

Any thoughts? Has anyone had experience with seeing their wayward spouse after a period of time? Was it detrimental or did they find it useful. Thanks all for listening!


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!