Hi Wendy! Been away from the boards for a while...but I wanted to check in with you! You were always there to get me through the tough times and help to keep my brain focused... I will always appreciate that!!

Sounds like you've gotten to a good place (as good as can be expected) and I thin the detachment needs to be a conscience, daily effort. I know there are still some things that trigger an irritation with my H, but I'm getting better at moving past them quicker.

'tentatively dating', huh?? how's that going?? lol.

I think being in a country mood is great! "If you're going through he!!..." is a personal favorite to get me in a better mood (and anything about revenge or getting even, haha!)


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12