HA it was just a phrase and now I have a new name? I should have gone for something empowering sounding Zena!
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this pursuer /distancer dynamic - how does one use it in a healthy functional way.
I am going to read all that stuff to find out I think! Because I think that's a sticking point for me. So much of my previous dating/relationship behaviour was based on manipulation and game playing and I don't want to be that person ever again.
