Today my sitch has come full circle and the next chapter begins..

My W flies in tonight and will be out here for 10 days. I am obviously ecstatic to put this mess behind us and start building a solid foundation for our new M.

I will be picking her up at the airport tonight and we will be spending the night in the city. Tomorrow I will officially be putting her wedding ring back on her finger. Then we are going to pick up our children for lunch. More importantly, to let them know that we are once again a family unit.

I did get offered the job that I interviewed for last month, however the offer was not sufficient enough to justify my relocation. There wasn’t much desire to move to NM anyway. Thankfully my W realizes that my career is going well here and the Bay Area offers the best opportunities for our family. She will be moving back out here at the of July.

On another note, I began to summarize my sitch in hopes of helping others. As I began to re-live the pain, I don’t feel it is best for me at this time to look back. Perhaps I will be up to doing it at some point. Hopefully I can help others by providing what I learned throughout my journey.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa