No Expectations, No Plans, No Timeline

[zig]

I think like the pursuit/chaser thing he senses that I'm not needy and desperate and wanting him back on any terms. He senses that I'm not that fussed.


well sallie -there ya go!! make sure you leave those curtains open more!!

i laughed when i read that post. the energy was delightful.

I think we should all aim for feeling delightful in some way or the other each and everyday - and if some of those moments are shared with our WAS's then we score.

part of me is thinking lately though - just sort of flashes in my mind - this pursuer /distancer dynamic - how does one use it in a healthy functional way.

maybe a good topic for a discussion around here...

i say - just aim for those light-hearted interactions all the time - because i tell you , they have to walk away with a slightly warm feeling inside, no matter how much they fight it.

goof balls - every last one of them, if you ask me!! (the WAS's, that is!)

and i am so calling you Sallie from now on GRIN!!

((( )))
zig

ps. just keep doing what you are doing