About two weeks agao I had my coaching session with Cheryl and had that day where I was "done with thinking about him"
Since then I have been out with friends, gone away to visit friends, purchased some new clothes, read a few books that weren't self help books, have things going on, And I haven't been over thinking my interactions with him.
so it was just a reminder that for all my "over thinking" about what will get me the best response, I always get the best response when I don't think about the response at all. Does that make sense?
Lately if I'm really confused (like when I thought he'd gone through things and left them strewn about) I wait, ask you guys, etc.
I think like the pursuit/chaser thing he senses that I'm not needy and desperate and wanting him back on any terms. He senses that I'm not that fussed.
Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuutttttt, this changes nothing. I still think he's irresponsible, imature, dependent, etc. I had a good convo just like we did on the phone last week and that's all there is.
