here's a quick tip - and it took me TEN frisking months to get it.
stop analyzing everything she says and does. it will drive you crazy!!
just take it at face value - and start doing it now. if a friendly neighbor said that to you - what would your reaction be? have that reaction
it's called indifference, apathy - the first steps to detaching.
she needs to feel your detachment - so the sooner you start the faster she'll feel it. get goal oriented and and use those goals to get you what you want.
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"