here's a quick tip - and it took me TEN frisking months to get it.

stop analyzing everything she says and does. it will drive you crazy!!

just take it at face value - and start doing it now. if a friendly neighbor said that to you - what would your reaction be? have that reaction

it's called indifference, apathy - the first steps to detaching.

she needs to feel your detachment - so the sooner you start the faster she'll feel it. get goal oriented and and use those goals to get you what you want.

zig


me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"