Well I finally changed a pattern!

STBXW wanted to take her/our things out of storage and put them into my garage, until she could sell the stuff at a garage sale. She wanted to split the profits with me. I told her that I just wanted to get the few possessions that I had in there and I was out. She was on her own with storing/selling the rest of the stuff.

She understandably was ticked off, but I frankly don't feel comfortable with having her boyfriend haul her possesions into my garage; pretending that all is ok; and rescuing her once again.

As I said before, this may make me an A-hole, but this pattern has to stop. The question I need to answer for myself is if I am standing up for myself, why do I feel guilty about it?


M:35
W:33
M: 5 yrs.
Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10
D Final: 8/7/12