ask him to find out if his D really wants me there. that way, if she doesn't and he does, the conflict is between the two of them and not between him and me or her and i.
Sounds like great advice.
I just mentioned to you on mab's thread how you have grown, it seems you've turned a corner.
Yay for (I wish you could change your name, cause i don't think you're scared silly anymore)!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss