Feeling like a boomerang. Back again! ARG!!

[zig]

hey mac- i did notice that, and for a moment was like"is he telling me to piss off and stop hassling", but then i decided it was a typo.

i'm not so sensitive any more (smile). even if you meant it, i would be okay with it.

and after reading your following posts - i sort of laughed - there goes mac making an attempt at expressing his feelings and not getting any negative feedback like he assumed he would.

as ss said (and you put it really well, ss - resentment kills relationships. but what's even worse, because it causes the resentment is this scenario where people don't tell each other how they really feel because of their own inability to express themselves, and put the reason for doing it on the other person saying that they are afraid of the other persons' reaction.

that's what h (and I ) are discovering when we talk. it's beside the point that it's true - but it's no way to go about things .

hey KD - could you step in and talk about the double bind thing in this context please?

glad that you are starting to think about how to do things differently - it's the first step

zig