Peringo unfortunatetly I have seen this happen many times. I think your W trully loved u but the notion of coming to the US is so strong that it adds more complexities. I don't think there is any literature regarding marrying someone from another country and divorce rates. I have seen this in my owm social network. Kaffe made a good point. Go back and read it. Right now you need a plan as to how you will get through this.
I noticed you are focusing on your W. STOP. She will get angry that's how it works. You need to focus on you and son. The thing about the Latin man is BS. Your W wants that and expects that from her man. Its time to get your b@@ls back, as Mr Bond will say. Forget about what your W is saying or doing. Your M is dead. Sorry.
Now lets talk about you and what you are gonna do for u. List 3 things that you always wanted to do but never did. i.e loose weigh, jump out of a plane, etc..... And if you could do things that would include son even better.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
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