WHG: And so we file...

[workinghardguy]

Oh I don't disagree KD. That's the work I'm doing now. She still uses these behaviors to try and get me to do things for her. And I don't know that she's even fully conscious of them. Though near the end during one conversation she admitted to knowing that she uses these to manipulate people, particularly me.

So yes, I play a role too. But having to walk around constantly on defense against having someone manipulate you through your triggers is no way to go through life.