Originally Posted By: scaredsilly
how you could communicate your FEELINGS without blaming or accusing?


Been thinking about your question (homework?) and it's a doozy because I just don't like conflict. I'd be worried that the other person would react defensively or worse my W would say something back to me in defence of her Pa being there. How to make a bad sitch worse frown

I know it's not healthy to keep negative feelings bottled up inside.

In this situation I should have brought the subject up with my W after Pa had left and asked if there could be some agreed "end-to-the-working-day" point instead of letting it go on and on and on ....

ARG!!!!!

And now back the L issue frown