hrm, You'll begin to notice the different personalities that are hiding within your h as time moves along, i.e., the way he dresses, the cologne, deodorant, etc. I think you've been seeing at least a couple of them already.
Eight months of replay is nothing...your h hasn't been too bad thus far with purchasing a lot of expensive toys. He may be one of those that won't, but time will tell.
At least he asked about the tires...still no offer to take the car in for you or to assist in paying for them. That's too far beyond his thought processes! LOL! I'm glad you are getting that taken care of today.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
