hey not to nag but this is the longest thread I've seen go, in years.
They usually cut them off and lock them at around 10 pages or 100 posts...so you may want to think about starting a new one with a recognizble title easy for us to find.
i have more to say but am pressed for time.
Also, I think if you read this past post of yours you will see a pattern in your choices. You were sort of benignly neglecting and downright rejecting him in some areas but you still SEEM to excuse it.
I think you are digging deep though, and you'll get somewhere great with this journey.
As for how long you can do this, see MY timeline in my signature block please.
At one point my sil asked me what the big deal was to rush into a div decision. She had a point b/c he was gone. No tension...
But I had an internal timeline of my older d graduating from high school. That was a total of 2 years from h first leaving to when I'd want to be out of limbo. I needed to know there was a light at the end of the tunnel.
Meanwhile there was some stability for the girls and I and we stayed in our house.
If ANY of that applies, great.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
