Also, a month ago when he was telling me how he was trying to find the best time to end things with OW, he told me that he didn't think he could fully commit to me until that relationship has ended. So, I think H and I both get what needs to happen as far as that goes.
Interesting, he can go with this OW while still with you but needs to "officially end it with her" That doesnt compute.
JKS youre back sliding now. You're letting your feelings and emotions interfere with your goal.
What makes you happy?
Why was your H attracted to you?
Start thining your way through this,.
Lead with your thoughts.
Are you prepared for either outcome?
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